So at the risk of sounding harsh, this is my public service announcement to all the females out there:
"Get a Life"
...when your whole life revolves around work, a boyfriend, or one single thing, you really don't have a life.
There are so many intelligent business women in the work force today, but they fail when it comes to their approach to life. Would they invest all their principal in one stock? If that stock went belly up, they would lose all their money...so then why would they do that in life? Boys come and go, jobs come and go, so how is it healthy to go 'all in' on one hand?
Plus instead of perfecting one role: career woman, good girlfriend, excellent daughter, etc etc...why not become a jack of all trades? Better yourself at work or learn how to cook whatever you can do improve yourself all around.
Obsessing about one aspect of your life won't change how that plays out-so why not take control of what you can...yourself...and make it better? If your company is restructuring- why not diversify your skill set as opposed to blaming Corporate America, or go back to school and further your education. But to simply sit tight and complain is just cowardly. Instead of dedicating your life to a boyfriend or relationship that may go caput...why not dedicate your life to yourself?
If one stock in the portfolio is performing poorly then there are other stocks to pick up the overall portfolio's return. Same goes with life, if you have a great career and good friends, if a relationship goes sour you have so many other things to be happy about...
"Take your life by the horns and make something of it".
"Put up or shut up."
Better yet, know that "no one gets to heaven in a rocking chair".
So pick your poison, but make it sweet & not bitter.
"Get a Life"
...when your whole life revolves around work, a boyfriend, or one single thing, you really don't have a life.
There are so many intelligent business women in the work force today, but they fail when it comes to their approach to life. Would they invest all their principal in one stock? If that stock went belly up, they would lose all their money...so then why would they do that in life? Boys come and go, jobs come and go, so how is it healthy to go 'all in' on one hand?
Plus instead of perfecting one role: career woman, good girlfriend, excellent daughter, etc etc...why not become a jack of all trades? Better yourself at work or learn how to cook whatever you can do improve yourself all around.
Obsessing about one aspect of your life won't change how that plays out-so why not take control of what you can...yourself...and make it better? If your company is restructuring- why not diversify your skill set as opposed to blaming Corporate America, or go back to school and further your education. But to simply sit tight and complain is just cowardly. Instead of dedicating your life to a boyfriend or relationship that may go caput...why not dedicate your life to yourself?
If one stock in the portfolio is performing poorly then there are other stocks to pick up the overall portfolio's return. Same goes with life, if you have a great career and good friends, if a relationship goes sour you have so many other things to be happy about...
"Take your life by the horns and make something of it".
"Put up or shut up."
Better yet, know that "no one gets to heaven in a rocking chair".
So pick your poison, but make it sweet & not bitter.
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